My name is Rum or Rummy (at least that's what my mother and friends call me! :) I am very passionate about life. Here are some words that best describe me. Funny, witty, goofy, silly, honest, caring, passionate, eccentric, compassionate, loving, true friend, creative, artistic, shy, tall, mentally stable, clean freak, fashionable, original 100%, leader, hard to figure out, gentleman, well rounded, hermit, loner, cat lover, music producer, art lover, Nag Champa lover, romantic, confident, sexy in my own way, and because of my character, sweetheart, perceptive, dreamer, visionary, respectful, kisser, insightful, and intriguing. There is absolutely no drama allowed around me or my beautiful little boy Samson the Siamese cat. Not into anything or anyone Ghetto! Sorry to old for that shit! I do have one question. I have noticed some profiles looking for dating or long term relationships, but will not talk to people interested in hanging out! How the hell do you expect to find your dream match or whatever the hell you want to call it, if you can't hang out with a person and get to really know them? If you go into a situation looking for love, and thinking just because you have a date with some one they are the one, your setting yourself up for a big let down! Come on people we are old enough to know that finding that special person begins with friendship. When I say I'm looking to hang out, that is exactly what I mean! Being in the company of a new person is a truly great experience, if you allow yourself to open up and take it all in. Some of you may judge me on my looks alone, but there is so much more to me! Sorry but I am very confident in myself, and with that said, if you want to judge me by my cover alone it's your loss!
How 2 treat a lady!
Current mood: grateful
I have been seeing some interesting things when it comes to couples lately, which leads me to believe that chivalry is dead.
1. Always open a car door for a woman!
2. When walking with your woman try holding her hand!
3. If your out at a restaurant with chairs make sure you pull it out for her to sit down first.
4. When out at a restaurant always let the lady order first!
5. When done with dinner the server may ask you do you want dessert? Don't blurt out no thank you. Ask the lady if she would like something first.
6. If your lady has a coat or a jacket help her put it on or remove it!
7. Always open a door for your lady!
8. If your out on the town and your woman is cold cuddle with her while walking or offer her your jacket until you get to your destination.
9. At the end of a date always walk her to the door, or watch her get into the house safely. Never just drive off you fucking loser!
10. If your date drove her own car to meet you somewhere walk her to the car, and tell her to make sure she calls you when she gets home to make sure she arrived safely.
11. If your date lives far away, offer to let her sleep over. Let her have the bed, and you can sleep on the couch. Just make sure your sheets are clean and don't smell like rotten man ass!
Name: Rum
Birthday: 7-14-74
Birthplace: Unknown
Current Location: Lakewood
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Black with bleached blond tips
Height: 6'6
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right mostly
Your Heritage: Unknown
The Shoes You Wore Today: Funky GBX
Your Weakness: Pretty Feet
Your Fears: Not living life to the fullest
Your Perfect Pizza: Fat Billy's Ranch dressing pizza! YUMMY
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Finish working on my own inner self
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: lol
Thoughts First Waking Up: I love my life
Your Best Physical Feature: My hands
Your Bedtime: Late weekends, Early Tues - Thursdays
Your Most Missed Memory: Being a kid at my Grand mothers farm
Pepsi or Coke: Yuck! No soda for me
MacDonalds or Burger King: BK, just because of the veggie burgers
Single or Group Dates: Group is always the best! I can be a real clown!
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Herbal Greet Tea for me
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee: Chai kicks both their asses
Do you Smoke: Hell NO!
Do you Swear: Hell YES!
Do you Sing:&..39;>
Do you Shower Daily: No I like the FUNK BABY!!! lol
Have you Been in Love: Yes and still am! With Life!
Do you want to go to College: Let me get back to you on this one!
Do you want to get Married: Hell NO!!!
Do you belive in yourself: Hell YES!!!
Do you get Motion Sickness: Which type of motion are you referring to?
Do you think you are Attractive: My mind and personality is the most Attractive!
Are you a Health Freak: I'm a Vegetarian, aren't we all?
Do you get along with your Parents: Read my fucking blogs!
Do you like Thunderstorms: Yes
Do you play an Instrument: Does a Drum Machine/Sampler count?
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Too Too MUCH!!!
In the past month have you Smoked: NO
In the past month have you been on Drugs: I am drug free baby!
In the past month have you gone on a Date: NO
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: NO
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: Hell NO
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: No, but need to soon
In the past month have you been on Stage: Dancing yes
In the past month have you been Dumped: NO
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: NO
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: Yes, love from all my friends!
Ever been Drunk: Still am
Ever been called a Tease: I'm the most honest person I know! Not with the BULL SHIT!
Ever been Beaten up: Yes by depression!
Ever Shoplifted: I'm sure I have when I was young! Oh yeah Lego's!
How do you want to Die: Hopefully Fucking!
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: I will forever be a kid! Fuck growing up!
What country would you most like to Visit: France, London, Amsterdam, and many others!
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: I love them all!
Favourite Hair Color: None
Short or Long Hair: What ever looks best
Height: Short, or Average
Weight: Average, Athletic, Thick!
Best Clothing Style: Unique, Trendy, Original!
Number of Drugs I have taken: Smoked weed 3 times in my life!
Number of CDs I own: 100's
Number of Piercings: 1 ear
Number of Tattoos: None
Number of things in my Past I Regret: NONE