Oh wow, I just watched the video of the pole dance between Charlies g/f and Andrea, and Andrea isnt anywhere near as big as they were making her out to be, she isn't model skinny,. but I dont think I would even call her fat in this video. Granted this is probably before she had 2 children, I have no idea what she looks like now. She could have def. found someone more attractive then Dumb(he was still fat at that point), but she didn't, yet Dumb loses a bunch weight, then he decides he has the guts to leave his family. Gauranteed if he still weighed what he used to, he would still be living at home miserable, or not.